I just wanted to share some writing I received this fine Tuesday morning.
Hillary vs. the Patriarchy By Erica Jong Monday, February 4, 2008; 12:00 AM
"But I'm sticking with Hillary. I trust her because all her life, her pro bono work has been for mothers and children. And mothers and children -- of all colors -- are the most oppressed group in our country. I trust her to speak for our children and grandchildren -- and for us." She always has." (I'll put the full article in the comments, as it is a little long.)
Op-Ed Columnist: Ask Not What J.F.K. Can Do for Obama
By FRANK RICH What has often been forgotten is that Barack Obama's weaknesses resemble John F. Kennedy's at least as much as his strengths.
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Hillary vs. the Patriarchy
By Erica Jong
Monday, February 4, 2008; 12:00 AM
"Look, the only people for Hillary Clinton are the Democratic
establishment and white women," said Bill Kristol yesterday on Fox News Sunday, one of the many "news" outlets to expose Kristol's reliable sexism. "The Democratic establishment would be crazy to follow an establishment that led it to defeat year after year," Kristol continued
in his woolly, repetitive style. "White women are a problem, you know.
We all live with that."
Bill Kristol has been much criticized for his war mongering, arrogance, poor writing and lack of fact checking. But at least the guy is honest. He considers women a problem -- especially white women. And he feels confident enough as an alpha male to be open about it. "I shouldn't
have said that," he demurred. But he can say anything he likes and
still fall eternally upward. He's a white man, lord of all he surveys
-- including Hillary Rodham Clinton.
I, too, have been watching Hillary Clinton with admiration, love, hate,annoyance and empathy since she appeared on the national scene 16 years ago. (Can it be only 16 years?) I've had a hard time making up my mind about her.
Perhaps that's because I identify with her so strongly.I'm hardly the only woman who sees my life mirrored in hers. She's
always worked twice as hard to get half as far as the men around her. She endured a demanding Republican father she could seldom please and a brilliant, straying husband who played around with bimbos. She was clearly his intellectual soul mate, but the women he chased were dumb and dumber.
Nothing she did was ever enough to stop her detractors. Supporting a
politician husband by being a successful lawyer, raising a terrific daughter, saving her marriage when the love of her life publicly humiliated her -- these are things that would be considered enormously admirable in most politicians and public figures. But because she's a
white woman, she's been pilloried for them.She's had to endure nutcrackers made in her image, insults about the shape of her ankles and nasty cracks from mediocrities in the media like
Rush Limbaugh, Chris Matthews and Kristol.When she decided to run for the Senate she was called a carpetbagger. When she won the hearts of her most conservative constituents by supporting their actual needs, the same poisonous pundits who said it couldn't be done attacked her.
Nor are poisonous women pundits any more kind. Maureen Dowd regularly gives her a drubbing. And "progressives" from Susan Brownmiller to Oprah Winfrey sport Obama buttons.I, too, was a bluestocking from a woman's college, straight-A student,
Phi Beta Kappa, who found my voice as a writer while exiled to the boonies with a husband who cheated. With every book I published, I saw more clearly how uneven was the playing field for women. We were let
into the literary world on sufferance. Unless we wrote unreadable academic tracts that nobody bought, or mysteries or romances or something called "chick lit" (whatever that is), or
biographies of Great Men, we were booed off the stage.
I chanced to get famous for my work. Hillary got famous in the
unspeakable role of "First Lady," which Jackie Kennedy Onassis thought sounded like the name of a racehorse. If she seemed uncomfortable in her
skin, if she kept changingher hair, her image, her style, her way of speaking, how could we blame her?She was trying to be self-protective. Who wouldn't be if constantly attacked by a beastly press?
Little by little, she loosened up. She learned how to dress and speak
and smile and relax on the podium. I've watched this whole process with
immense admiration.
Fame in America is unforgiving. And she had to grow comfortable in the
spotlight -- something very few people can do without having a nervous
breakdown or drinking or popping pills.
Hillary made it without self-destructing. She was a tower of strength to
her husband, who seems to have little impulse control, and her daughter
whom she obviously loves and whom she never exploited even in the worst
of times.
She cannot have enjoyed her husband's playing around. She certainly
never condoned it. But he was clever enough for her, he supported her
dreams, and they both loved their smart and beautiful daughter.
besides, what does anyone know about anyone else's marriage? As a
novelist I understand that I can't even invent the complexities most
people live with,the compromises made, the deals negotiated and
renegotiated. If it works,let's say hallelujah, rather than pick and
quibble. It took me three marriages to find my soul mate. Maybe Hillary
was luckier.
In the 1990s, when they became "Billary" as president, she gave her all.
When the White House beckoned, she was true blue. When he took the
hardest job in the world, she helped. And when he rewarded her by
letting some tootsie do whatever it was they did in the Oval Office,
she got really mad.
But she was wise enough to know what it did and did not mean. She did
what smart European and Asian women have done through the ages: She kept
her marriage but changed her focus to her own ambitions.
As a senator she has learned compromise and negotiation. She has gotten
to know red America as well as blue. If she could win over the rednecks
in upstate New York, she can win over any American. She knows this
country is full of "security" moms as well as soccer moms. Since she is
a woman, she has to show she's ready to be commander in chief. Hence
her "triangulation" on Iraq and her signing the absurd Lieberman-Kyl
resolution, which calls on our government to use "military instruments"
to "combat, contain and [stop]" Iran's
meddling in Iraq.
By the time it came up she must have known the Cheney-Bush war
profiteers would never embrace even partial peace. She had to win over
her America and theirs.
Who ever got elected in the United States without moving to the center?
Not Ralph Nader the narcissist, nor Ross Perot the spoiler, nor
certainly Adlai Stevenson the "egghead," nor Ronnie Reagan the
red-baiter from Hollywoodland. Dubya presented himself as a
"compassionate conservative" and our dopey press bought it. They
inflicted him on us because they thought Al Gore was a nerd.
The right-wing media barons happily smeared the better man for no good
reason.
Noam Chomsky predicted all this 25 years ago, when he said that the
concentration of the media would rob us of real news.
It certainly has. We can read all we want about Britney, Paris, Heath,
Tom Cruise, the Spice Girls and all their buds -- dead or alive -- but
we can'tread about how many children have been maimed in Iraq, or their
dead and legless or armless mothers and fathers who were shocked and
awed. But we know it's
happening. And we feel the great weight of our complicity.
You will point to Hillary's complicity. You will quote crazy-like-a-fox
Ann Coulter, who claims to be voting for her.
You will also quote left-wing bloggers who love Barack Obama, and
MoveOn.org peaceniks (I am one) who see no evil in him (nor do I). But
I see little experience either. Obama is smart and attractive. Maybe
he'll be president someday.
He was lucky enough not to be in the Senate when the Iraq war resolution
was floated after then-Secretary of State Colin Powell lied about WMDs.
That was the true tragedy of race: a black man lying for a corrupt
white administration that was using him as a token, much as they use
Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice now.
Obama is also a token -- of our incomplete progress toward an
interracial society. I have nothing against him except his
inexperience. Many black voters agree. They understand tokenism and
condescension. I understand my hopeful friends who think an Obama button
will change America.
But I'm sticking with Hillary. I trust her because all her life, her pro bono work has been for mothers and children. And mothers and children -- of all colors -- are the most oppressed group in our country. I trust her to speak for our children andgrandchildren -- and for us. She always has.
In terms of ideas, I'm equally aligned with Obama and Clinton. But I like Obama more. I think he brings a fresh perspective to the political landscape, is smart, dynamic and can potentially be an agent of change.
I'm not opposed to Hillary, and I would like to see a woman in the oval office--it's been far too long and we make up more than half of the population! At the same time, I have no desire to go back into the Lewinsky, whitewater, morality scandals of the past either. I'm so over that.
So next week when I vote, I'm going for Obama. But I'm excited that we have had such an exciting Democratic primary and such great candidates. I mean, Obama, Clinton and Edwards? That's a great field.
Obama is getting my vote in the March 4 primaries. This will be the first time that I have voted in a primary -- although I have always voted in the prez elections, and others since age 18. It's the first time that I WANT to declare my allegiance to a party based on a candidate.
I can't wait until March 4.
I'm SO excited to have so many people into this election so early! Isn't it awesome! This is all new for me as I was raised by a guy that's pretty anti-government, so voting was never really our thang. Now that I've come into my own, I want to have a voice!
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